This is for the woman that wants nothing more but to be pushed up against that wall
to take off her armor
to untame her good girl
to melt into his arms
to trust him with all of her
and to be oh so powerfully woman
3 month live container | 4 video modules | 6 live workshops and Q&As | 25+ somatic practices | private community | archetypes system
It is time hun...
TO FINALLY BE SO HELD, MET AND TAKEN CARE OF
TO FREE YOU THE F UP FROM THE NOISE OF
WHO YOU WERE TOLD TO BE AS A WOMAN,
AND RETURN YOU BACK TO YOUR ACTUAL POWER
AND TO forever OPEN YOUR HEART AND BODY
TO THE MASCULINE in all his forms
IS this YOU
DARLING?
✔ sooo longing to be worshipped, ravished, taken deeper... all the way to god...
✔ you know your patterns, but they sneak back in sometimes: micromanaging, pleasing, power woman-ing, back in the head
✔ you're amazing at understanding and explaining your feelings… but long to be felt beyond words
✔ men often seem too nice, too busy with their own feelings, defensive, not so generous, or shrink in your presence
✔ the quiet question: will a man ever really meet you… or are you forever too much, not enough, or wanting too much?
✔ you often become his coach, teacher, or therapist (which you're really good at), when all you crave is to be his woman
✔ you're the rock, the put-together-one, the one holding a lot... while secretly achinggg to melt in some strong arms..
✔ feeling like you need to GIVE something to a man to be good enough for him
✔ not sure if your standards and needs are healthy self-worth... or sneaky protection
✔ tired of trying to be more feminine.. are you doing it right? is it fawning, shrinking, performing?
✔ your body still carries old heartbreak and pain with men…sometimes you brace for disappointment even when love is right there
✔ you often end up filling the silence, asking the questions, or taking over when he gets the car directions wrong
✔ whenever you ask or express your needs to him it turns into friction instead of devotion
✔ soooo ready for your king... whether it’s the man you’re waiting for, or the one already in your bed...
✔ you give your whole heart... but ache to feel chosen with the same depth you give
✔ oof its uncomfy to really receive compliments, support, money, attention - you're a pro at “ah, you look beautiful too"
This all comes from repressed femininity
& wounded masculinity...
We were taught to be good girls, boss babes, queens, seductresses or to just be chill. We were taught that our inner world was too much, too inconsistent, too irrational.
So we all ended up in this weird pretzel of repressing our feminine and trying to be what the world taught us is feminine.
And in a world that rewards wounded masculinity, we build armour over our wild hearts. Cause it seemed safer. Cause the world understood us more with it. Cause life seems to demand it from us. And so we do all the holding, managing, achieving, performing, thinking, trying to control our feminine so she doesn't mess up our plans too much (also those of us that have done the work)
and oh my. did we get it wrong.
oof. let that sink in..
The way that you relate to masculinity and men did not come out of nowhere...
All of this comes from your first imprints of polarity as a young woman by the way he, the masculine (your father, first love, authority culture, or society) first responded to your femininity.
and darling, that is your Polarity Archetype
And here's the really cool thing.
After years of studying and refining, I have perfected The Polarity Archetype System, which shows us that these polarity imprints hold both your wound and your gift.
So no, you did not choose this pattern.
But,
you can choose to empower the gift and transmute the pain. And yes, THAT is what we will do inside Healing the Masculine.
Not to fix you.
To free you.
So, which Polarity Archetype are you?
Are you more a Siren, a Storm, a Goddess, a Cool Girl,
a Nice Girl, or a Boss Babe?
(cause HTM is for allll of you)
And I was there hun... big time...
Before this work, I lived in a completely different world. I was a data scientist; successful, bad ass, driven, charming, and I could carry my own suitcase.
I was the rock for many. I wanted to be there for everyone. I always made sure everyone felt comfortable and seen. I was so so caring.
I thought I was everything a woman should be. But I was secretly so exhausted. And I didn't get why.
I didn’t see that I was actually so much in my masculine. Overperforming, carrying it all by myself, and working so hard on fixing all these 'problems' that kept me from everything I wanted.
I was in a string of not-so-great relationships with men that didn't really meet me. Men that thought I was a lot, or intimidating, or just wanted to win me.
And no matter how much I tried to ask for things the right way, I just seemed to be pushing these men more and more away
I thought being feminine meant being sexy & being there for everyone.
And then came the yearssss of therapy, embodiment, polarity teachings, tantra, shadow work. You name it, I did it.
I knew my patterns.
But here’s what no one tells you: even after all that, the boss babe will still kick in. The good girl will still kick in. We will still have the most creative closures and the most creative ways to maybe look feminine, but be in fear and control. And our bodies will continue to protest.
So here I was.
- Performing femininity to get him to choose and claim me
- Still trying to be the put-together one who knows all her patterns and can communicate well
- Still watching out if he is meeting my 'good masculine' checklist
- Still meeting men that were too nice, or with no space for anyone but him, or that couldn't match me
It was humbling to see that the patterns weren't necessarily gone. That the wounds from fathers, partners, the collective tend to kick in for all of us
This program is how I made my way through.
Today, my life is unrecognizable.
Not because I became really good at being feminine, but because I released even the most subtle layers of shoulds.
And my patterns no longer exist.
I am now with a man that meets me in all the ways, that provides and protects, that leads from devotion, and that has never picked up a Deida book.
I healed my inner dude even more, so I always got myself and now feel an unwavering self worth.
Being feminine doesn't cost me energy anymore. Having moments in masculine energy are delicious, and it naturally switches off when I am done. I know the nuances between feminine, fawning, performing, and subtle control.
And this is why I made
Healing the Masculine.
Not to teach surface-level polarity tips
or give you a longer list of how to be a good woman.
But to guide you into the deep, ancestral, erotic healing that changes everything. So you can be truly open to the masculine without any performance, or lingering resentment and come home to the wildness of your own heart, whatever shape she takes.
So that you can put your own sword down, and just be.
so what if I told you
- Men will want ALL of you. Your softness, your bigness, your yesnoyesno, your power, your surrender.
- Compliments... praise... money... provision... all of it will feel so good in your body 'cause your nervous system will now know how to hold it.
- you stopped waiting for the king, and now know how to evoke his kingness...
- you don't even realise when he gets the car directions wrong... because it's not your problem
- your inner dude becomes something so delicious, your 'to do list' will start turning you on
- you feel so damn worthy in your femininity that even on days where you don't lift a finger... you feel like a damn queen
- you get free stuff all the damn time
- men actually rise into devotion and leadership around you... without you ever asking
- your tears become invitations for devotion, not proof of lack
- you fall so madly in love with the masculine all around you..
- you get pushed up the wall just because of how you are breathingggg
- your sensuality won't be something you need to work for... you will melt into effortless juiciness
600+ women have gone before you...
introducing...
HEALING the
MASCULINE
the course to forever heal your relationship to men...
starting sep 25
What you will receive
INSIDE THIS LIVE HTM JOURNEY
Over 12+ hours of BRAND NEW video lectures
jam packed with knowledge, deepening, understanding (including videos and slides) - which you get to move through at your own pace (value €1397)
6 LIVE workshops + Q&As
including s*x magick, SWAMPING, partner polarity practice, ancestral healing and devoting the masculine (value €1149)
Over 25+ deep af practices
from somatic exercises, meditations, morning practices, self pleasures, workbooks (value €849)
LIVE Opening and closing ceremony
which are life changing in itself (as said by many)
Your very own delicious telegram group
with guides and prompts to connect & digest together.
(many have said that the group aspect is one of their fav parts of HTM)
The very latest version of my Polarity Archetype System
This is my most powerful tool where you will learn the wounded and healthy polarity archetypes for both women and men
Pre-work & foreplay with nervous system tools
so you have real nervous system tools to go through this transformation safe, empowered, and in pleasure
Also, HTM will have a special focus to help you move through an online course while NOT needing to be a good student or a cute procrastinating bunny
a long list of delicious bonuses... (see more below)
From the art of asking, to a deepdive into the archetypes, to a bonus telegram Q&A, and... a bonus call with a masculine guest speaker (value €819)
That's a total value of €4214...
MODULE 1
Healing the Father
and awakening the soft feminine
- The father wound and how it formed your femininity and dynamics with men
- Deep dive into The Polarity Archetypes as well as your unique feminine gift in polarity
- How you are performing for love and returning you back to your innocence & softness
- The art of Receiving
- Play with the delicious Shadow Feminine like fawning, performing, topping from the bottom, closing and calling it power (and bragggg about it!)
- And oh yes, you will receive a crash course on all things polarity and what healthy & modern polarity looks and feels like
MODULE 2
Healing the Culture
and awakening the primal untamed feminine
- Shed everything we were told we should be & connect to the dark untamed feminine
- Awaken your hunger, wants, desires... the art of Aching
- Learn to dance with your chaos, not drown in it, to hold your storm like a queen
- How your fullness, moans and tears become the very thing that evokes his depth
- The nuance of feminine testing
- Learn everything about the wounded masculine, how we've internalised, and how it shows up in the men around us
- Transmute your pain towards the masculine... into eros
- The art of moving through emotions as a tantric practice
MODULE 3
Healing the Partner
and awakening the seductress/ courtesan
- Why you’re attracted to certain men (and why you attract them)
- Evoke the healthy masculine archetypes & calling him into his power
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Heal your closures to love (the subtle ways you keep his love out)
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Polarity in triggers: anxious/ avoidant & other dynamics
- Call men into their power (and the subtle ways we do the opposite)
- Surrender vs collapsing your power. When to open more and when not
- Feminine communication:
share pain and need in a way that he can actually hear you (no fawning) - Out of the head and words, and into the body
- Desire and inspire vs demand and command. Neediness vs real feminine hunger
- Evoke his masculinity in the bedroom...
MODULE 4
Healing the Inner Dude
and awakening the mature feminine
- We will go where very few feminine courses go: the inner dude and see why a feminine woman needs to be loved by her inner man
- Heal wounded inner dude archetypes
- Why the inner dude is needed for healthy polarized relationships
- Inner polarity and how to implement in daily life (like being so turned on by your to do list)
- Learn energetic agility so you can shift from masculine to feminine with yumminess
- The beautiful healthy mature feminine archetypes
- Leading from your feminine, with a healthy inner dude
- Integration
MODULE 1
❤︎ PRACTICES include Healing the Father Wound, Returning to the Innocence of You, Breast Massage... and more.
▼ LIVE CALL 1: opening ceremony with deep ancestral healing
▼ LIVE CALL 2: Q&A + community connection time
MODULE 2
❤︎ PRACTICES include Primal Pleasure, Emotional Cycling for the Mature Feminine, Cervix Self Pleasure... and more
▼ LIVE CALL 3: Swamping (sooooo good)... and Q&A
MODULE 3
❤︎ PRACTICES include Deep Healing: your closures in Love, Making "safe" sexy again, Spear vs Wide, Flirt Day, Releasing Past Partners... and more
▼ LIVE CALL 4: Sensual embodiment & Devotion to Him... and Q&A
MODULE 4
❤︎ PRACTICES include Maturing the Inner Dude, Masculine Practice for Women, Awakening the Crone... and more
▼ LIVE CALL 5: Live Partner Polarity Practice (embody BOTH the masculine and the feminine)... and Q&A
▼ LIVE CALL 6: Closing Ceremony + se.s magick manifestation ritual
THE BONUSES
You’ll also receive these delicious bonuses
BONUS 1
THE ART OF ASKING
Yes darling... the core of the feminine is not to be passive letting it all happen. We get to ask. And not like a princess. Not like a good girl. (value €111)
BONUS 2
FAWNING vs SURRENDER
What is feminine surrender really? And why is it not the same as fawning? Or being a 1950's tradwife? Learn how surrender actually allows for MORE of our power. (value €88)
BONUS 3
HOW TO BE WITH HIS DEFENSIVE-NESS
Oof yes. The core wound of the masculine in the world right now is his defensiveness. So. How do we relate to it? What is acceptable from him and what isn't? How do we dance with it from our mature feminine? (value €199)
BONUS 4
INSPIRE HIS DOM..
Oooooof. yes. So how do we inspire his Dom? How do we evoke him to push us up the wall? (value €122)
and the biggest one...
BONUS 5
A BONUS CALL WITH A GUEST MASCULINE SPEAKER
Oh yes... We will receive a guest lecture from a very special masculine speaker.. He will be announced later... (value €299)
Total value of just the bonuses: €819,-
It's time to forever let him in
HTM is the only program you will ever need to forever heal your relationship to the masculine inside and out
and to remember your powerful, open, wild feminine ...
I'M READY →
save 20% with the early bird
till september 19
or join
THE VIP ROOM
HTM + weekly telegram Q&A coaching
for the entire course (min 12 weeks)
€1444 + €1222 €999 (early bird)
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+ sweet add-ons to deepen your journey
There's several courses that will greatly support you in your HTM journey.
1) THE VIP ROOM -- Upgrade to our sweet private telegram space, where you’ll receive weekly coaching and intimate support from me for the full HTM journey.
Where you can ask me all your burning questions.
2) CALLING HIM IN -- The perfection addition to HTM if you are single and ready to call in your man. CHI will go a lot deeper into aspects that we touch on inside HTM (check out the full teaching list to see what exactly)
3) RADIANT -- Learn the secrets to your feminine radiance, beauty & effortless attractiveness with this 8 part program.
4) SURRENDER OF THE STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN -- If you are so so ready to no longer do it all alone anymore... this deep dive workshop is for you.
All these add-ons will be offered to you (some at a big discount) at some point in the purchasing process
THE DEETS
1) you join the course and any potential add-ons & upgrades
2) you receive a welcome email with further instructions and a form so you can drop into the space
3) if you joined any of the add-ons, you will receive access to them right away (so you can get started today!)
4) foreplay and the telegram groups open a few days before the opening ceremony
5) calls will be september 25, october 16, november 6 + 27, december 11+ 18.
All at 8pm Amsterdam - CET time. All recorded.
(this schedule is preliminary, and might shift to another week)
5) And off you go!
I'M READY →
If you're single
HTM gives you the tools to stop performing, overgiving, or falling into fawning just to be loved.
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release old heartbreak and father wounds that keep you closed to good men
- find your authentic free femininity and worth
- release your creative closures to love, all the ways you are keeping yourself safe, all the ways you think you may be powerful, but are actually keeping love out
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call in devotion by embodying your feminine hunger and truth without collapse
- and fall so madly in love with the masculine all around you
If you're in relation
HTM helps you shed all the layers and step fully into being his woman
- communicate your needs in a way that evokes devotion instead of friction
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stop micromanaging and restore polarity in the day-to-day (yes, even when he gets the car directions wrong 😉)
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ignite intimacy, play, and eros (especially if a bit of resentment or “roommate energy” has crept in)
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fall oh so madly in love with him
Some of the yummy things you will learn
✓ 17 feminine shadows
✓ 6 feminine polarity archetypes & 6 masculine polarity archetypes (designed by Sophie; now updated and perfected)
✓ swamping
✓ live partner polarity practice
✓ a flirt day
✓ tantric practices like breast massage, cervix self pleasure and se* magic
✓ shamanic practices that will release old patterns across lineages
✓ the way of the courtesan
✓ and so much more 😉
A’s to your Q’s
I've already done HTM before, whats new this year?
How are sophie's courses different?
Do I get coaching & support from Sophie?
when will the calls be?
Can details still change?
What about refunds?
What will this practically look like?
I'm single/married, is this for me?
I want to become an affiliate of this amazing work!
I've heard about your polarity archetypes...
I am new to this...
I have already done a lot of work
What happens inside of the VIP Room?
When is the next round of HTM?
About Sophie
Sophie Josephina is a polarity teacher who works with masculine & feminine energetics in relationships, in inner work, business, money and the universe itself (hello inner dude & sky daddy!).
Thousands of people have joined her programs for healing, awakening and maturing their inner and outer masculine/feminine dynamics.
As an ex data scientist turned polarity teacher, she is trained in polarity facilitation, relationship coaching, t.ntric practices, masculinity, holistic healing and neurobiology.
She also hosts a podcast (Deeper with Sophie Josephina) where she has open and raw conversations on the challenges and beauty of masculine/feminine relating. Find out more about her on her main platform @sophie.josephina or www.sophiejosephina.com
and way way more testimonials...
from the women that have gone before you...
what are you waiting for?
let's get you back to your feminine, surrendered, wild, taken care of, and oh so powerful self...
and be pushed up against that wall...
starting sep 25
early bird till sep 19
